Applying for our Passports at the DFA (Dept. of Foreign Affairs) Part 2: Actual Appointment Day

Like I mentioned in the previous post, we were scheduled to be at the Department of Foreign Affairs building in Aseana Business Park in Paranaque, yesterday, May 16th. Our scheduled time was 1130AM but we were there around 10:45 AM just to be safe since we needed to be there at 11AM as was mentioned in the "Important Reminders".

Step 1: Appointment Verification
We initially went to Gate 1, but we found out that it was reserved for those who made their appointments via the DFA Appointment Call Center.  Gate 2 was for those who made their appointments online and so we proceeded to enter.  The guard at the gate will ask to see your "Important Reminders" notice as well as those application forms which you were supposed to print out.  They don't allow chaperones to go inside, so take note, only applicants are allowed to go in.  Once inside, your first step will be at the Online Appointment Verification Tables.   You can't miss them because as soon as they check your bags, they're to your right.  You will then present your application forms for them to scan the barcodes.  Unfortunately, I wasn't able to take a picture of this area.

Step 2: Screening of Documents


While waiting in the "screening room"
After they have verified your appointments, you will then proceed to the Screening Room (I just call it that because this is where they'll screen your papers).  Mind you, the guards/employees guarding the gates can be quite harsh, cranky and intimidating so just be calm and keep your documents within easy reach.  This area is very much like the NSO Serbilis Center in Pasay.  Rows and rows of chairs on which people sit and move as soon as the counters are available.  Don't worry, it's airconditioned and even have TV screens to keep you occupied until it's your turn.



Justin Bieber entertaining you
 while waiting
There are also as many as 30+ counters so time will pass quickly.  It was around 11AM when we finally arrived at our counter.  My application as well as Den's was quickly approved for payment while they asked me to photocopy my original application form to be attached to Dana's and Dylan's since I'm applying on their behalf.  Warning:  Photocopying within the DFA costs P3 per page!!! So, to those whose parents will be applying on behalf of their children, just make extra copies of your own application forms to save you on photocopying costs ;)  The good thing about the system though is that you don't have to fall in line again.  You can tell the guards that you were asked to photocopy something and they will let you go to the first available counter.  Employees at this section were rather pleasant, must be because it's a pretty simple system.  Some of the documents I brought were returned to me, like the photocopies of the kids' birth certificates (they kept the originals of course) and some other supporting documents.  Once they're satisfied with the primary documents they don't need to ask for more.  But bring them still just in case.

Step 3:  Payment


Dylan obviously getting
bored with waiting 
The next step is payment of your passports.  The regular passport costs P950 each.  This isn't the expedited version which I think costs P1200.  The date stamped on our receipt was for claiming on June 21, so that's roughly a month's waiting time.  They have affixed notices around the building about how they're experiencing some technical difficulties etc so passports may experience a delay in releasing.  Anyway, once you exit this "Screening Room", you need to proceed to the 2nd level where the payment centers are located.  In our experience, there was a waiting section beside the escalators and guards will prevent you from going to the 2nd floor directly.   This was because there was an inordinate amount of people that day.

When we got up, there were more people!  There's a different room called "Passport Section Area 2" which I assumed to be the courtesy lane for senior citizens, infants and goverment employees.  In front of it is more rows of chairs like another waiting section.  At that time, I didn't know what they were waiting for.  Once you get past this area, you'll enter a different room.  Here, you'll find the payment area, the encoding and photo capture section and the courier handling service section.  You can hardly see the payment area.  There were 4 windows, but when we were paying, only 2 were open, must be because it was almost lunch time.






Step 4: Encoding/Enrollment
After payment, you'll proceed to the "Encoding/Enrollment" section where you're going to get your queue number and wait for your turn.  This is where your information will be encoded and your pictures taken for the new e-passport.  There are about 80+ tables there to handle the demand.  There are TV screens which show the current numbers being assisted.  Imagine our surprise when we got our number: 2311 and then we checked the screen for the latest number being processed: 1645.  It doesn't take a genius to see that there's roughly 700 people ahead of you waiting for their turn!! Oh My Gosh!!! That was like being sucker punched!! LOL  Now I understood what all the people are waiting for.  We actually tried waiting a while just to see how fast things are going.  It wasn't fast going at all most likely because it was lunch break already.

While we were waiting, there were employees going around asking people if they were going to opt for the home delivery option.  It was like multi-tasking since they know it takes a while before you get to the encoding part so it's like you're being proactive about waiting LOL  Home delivery costs P120 per passport.


By this time, we took our lunch at McDonald's across the street figuring we have at least 1 hour to get back in line.  So we left around 1230 and were back at the DFA by 130PM.  When we left, the queue was at the 1700 count and when we returned it was at the 1800 count.  So, it's like 100 people every hour were being processed.  See, we had so much time on our hands we actually deduced the math! LOL  This was the reason we brought our laptop along so the kids won't be bored.  Honestly, they need to include kids below 7 years old in the courtesy lane.  Kids this age get bored so easily it's a pain to their parents and guardians to make them sit still for hours!!

We were finally able to make it to the inner sanctum by 3:00.  Things were faster this time around, since the people manning the desks were done with lunch break and were seemingly more energized to work faster :)  When it was our turn for the encoding, it took about 15 minutes to take our pictures and encode our infos and to be reminded when we can pick up our passports!! hahaha so yeah, if there weren't so many people, you can get your processing done in about an hour's time LOL  Here's proof about all this adventure! LOL
 
 

Applying for our Passports at the DFA (Dept. of Foreign Affairs) Part 1: Preparation

16 May 2010

When I realized that my passport was expiring on June 2011, I immediately made plans to renew it.  I knew that all renewal and new passport applications have to be coursed through the new DFA passport scheduling system, either via online or through their call center.  When Patrick applied for his own passport last 2010, he was part of the last batch that was processed at the old DFA building along Roxas Boulevard so I knew that come the start of the year 2011, all passport applications will be processed at the new building in Aseana Business Park in Paranaque City.   Here's the map.

Now, of course, with the Internet at my disposal, I went to the DFA's website: www.dfa.gov.ph and was then forwarded to the DFA Passport Appointment System.  From here, you can find everything that you need to know about applying for a new passport or renewing one.  Then, I thought that since I was going to the DFA anyway, I might as well get Dana, Dylan and Den their own passports as well.  Kind of like, killing two birds with one stone.  I took down all the requirements needed for everyone and promptly made an online appointment that day, March 10, 2011.  The earliest date available via the DFA scheduling was May 16th.  

PASSPORT APPLICATION REQUIREMENTS
I had to renew my green passport so I only needed a few requirements, as taken from the Documentary Requirements of the DFA:

Green Passport or issued after 01 May 1995

  • Present passport and photocopy of pages 1,2,3 (amendment) and last page.
  • The pages showing latest Bureau of Immigration departure and arrival stamps.
  • Photocopy of Birth Certificate for minor applicants.
  • For illegitimate minor, personal appearance of mother is required.
Dana, Dylan and Den were first-time applicants and needed the following requirements, as taken from the Documentary Requirements of the DFA:  Of course, requirements may be more or less depending on the applicant's case so you can check the website I've given above to see which category you fall under. 


  • NSO Birth Certificate
  • Valid ID's (not required for minors)
  • Personal Appearance of the mother (since Dana and Dylan are illegitimate (ooh, sounds nasty hahaha)  Den is no longer a minor so personal appearance of her mother isn't necessary.  Like I said, 
I also prepared the original and photocopies of their Baptismal certificates and their ID's from school just in case.  It's better to bring all the supporting documents you can think of rather than have to go back because you didn't bring them with you and they want them.

ONLINE APPLICATION SYSTEM
When I've checked and double-checked the requirements and have estimated the time it will take to accomplish them (I needed to get new copies of their birth certificates from the NSO) I was ready to make the appointment.  Here is where set your appointment if you're only applying for a single individual -  Online Passport Application System.  But, they also give you the option of applying as a family so you only have one date and you're scheduled together.  Here's where you do it - Family Application

From what I remember, you need to fill out the forms for each applicant that you're including in your family application.  Once you're done, you will need to print out these forms (in long bond paper) including the "Important Reminders" page.  Without this, you will not gain entry into the DFA.  Here is what it looks like:


Just to be on the safe side, you need to save this file so you have a back-up copy when you need to print it again (if you misplace it or something)

Now, all I had to do was get the documentary requirements ready, prepare the P950 per passport fee, prepare the P120 delivery per passport fee (this is optional) and wait for the scheduled date.

I want a summer getaway!

It’s summer time here and I’m itching to go away on a vacation with the family.  Just for fun, I’m looking at summer getaways in Mexico because I’ve never been there and a girl can dream, can’t she?  I know a few friends who have been to Mexico and I was really jealous of their trip.  I’ve heard them mention Cabo San Lucas and Cancun and I know that those are the really cool places to be. 

Anyway, just looking at the pictures from their trip made me want to know more about the places they’ve been to and here I am looking at different websites for these destinations.  It’s making me drool, these pictures.  Imagine living the life at really luxurious hotels with beautiful beachfronts with the breeze in your hair.  My kids will relish this J

There’s also something that I discovered.  You can actually book these Mexico luxury hotels through auctions and biddings! Can you believe it?  That will really bring the cost down and I can see myself opting to participate if I can save that much money and still stay in such a paradise of a hotel.  There's so many luxurious hotels and resorts to go through.. Hmm.. let’s get working here.. J

Dylan's Moving Up Day

We have reached another milestone in Dylan's life - his Moving Up Ceremony.  It's really such an achievement for him because he has to work really hard at it because of his speech impairment.  However, he has improved a lot - he's much more articulate now, he can keep up with the conversation and contribute to it, he can sing clearly and he can write some of his favorite letters and numbers.  I owe it all to his teachers in Little Sofie and to his teachers at Core Skills.  He still has a long way to go and we need all the help that we can get :)


His Moving Up Ceremony was held at the San Beda Conference Hall (the teachers at Little Sofie all come from San Beda so they have a special arrangement with them).   Everyone looked so cute with their long-sleeved shirts and well-brushed hair :)  and the girls in their "gowns" (yes, there were some students who actually wore ball gowns!) I was rather disappointed in some of the parents that didn't treat the ceremony with the formality that it deserved.  Some wore ultra-mini skirts that the moment they went up on stage to place the medals on their kids, everyone was "treated" to a sight that they didn't want to see...  uggh.. I think that parents also need to be behaved during ceremonies like this.  The kids were well-behaved but the parents were becoming unruly trying to get pictures of their kids.  It's understandable that they want to preserve the moment, but the fact is, they were becoming disruptive and the ceremony was turning into chaos because of them.. hmm..








I do commend Ms. Shiela, Teacher Dory, Teacher Karen, Teacher Kat and Teacher Del for all their hard work in their preparations.  They all looked very beautiful too! :)








Dylan got the Most Polite and Most Cheerful awards! hahaha After the event, we went to JT's Manukan Grille for some much needed lunch :)













Dylan's 5th Birthday



March is always a busy year.  Especially when you have to deal with graduations and moving up ceremonies.  It's doubly exciting for us since the kids both celebrate their birthdays in the same month.  Granted, it can also be cheaper since you only have to celebrate once, which at this point in their lives, they don't mind hahaha


So anyway, we didn't have a celebration planned for Dylan.  We figured, since he's going to his Moving Up ceremony on the 22nd anyway, we'd celebrate then and make it a double celebration (jeez, reading back, that's a lot of "celebration" words hehe).  Thanks to Ate Den and Kuya Erghie Dylan had his first gift of the day. :)  He got two workbooks :) What we wanted was to buy a bike for Dylan.  He finally figured out how to ride his small bike - before he used to pedal his feet on the ground instead of driving the pedals themselves. We thought about where to buy a good, quality bike.  We've learned our lesson with Dana's bike which we bought from a mall.  It broke down so fast, it stayed in the storage far longer than Dana was able to use it.



This time, we headed to the bike lane in Quiapo where we were able to buy Dylan's bike at a much cheaper price but it's a far better quality than that of Dana's.  We had to walk the length of the avenue to get a feel for what's available.  It was very hot but the corn and the green mangoes made it all worthwhile :) There were cheap bikes, there were expensive bikes.  Some bikes looked like old stock.  Some looked new.  Others looked rickety, others looked really sporty.



We found the best deal at King's Bicycle shop where the sales assistant was helpful without being too forceful. That quality to me is as important as the cost of the bike :D  It was slightly more expensive than in other stores but we thought that their quality was good considering the number of customers currently in the store and actually buying stuff from them.  Before we actually finalized the sale, we went over to the Globe Lumpia store in Raon!  It's such great tasting lumpia and cheap too!  We bought a lot for our lunch for when we get back home.  


We went back to King's Bicycle and bought Dylan's Spiderman bike.  We had to wait a while for the technician to assemble the bike too.  We kept ourselves occupied by admiring all the bike parts.  One caught Patrick's eye - it was a Cannondale bike frame that was so light you can pick it up with one hand.  But the price blew us away! It cost P60,000 (roughly $1400) enough for Dana's 2 years of education LOL We just took a cab to get home.








That same day, we also took Dana's bike to the shop near the house.  It turned out, the sprockets needed to be replaced and Patrick also bought bells which he affixed to the kids' bikes :)  Needless to say, we were all singing to Queen's "I want to ride my bicycle" throughout the day.  




As a treat, that Saturday, we all trooped to the Quezon Memorial Circle so that the kids will have the freedom to enjoy riding their bikes.  It's kind of hampering them having to just circle around the living room at home Den and Erghie also came with us.  We had to remove Dana's bike balancers to get her accustomed to riding, which at first made her really mad and frustrated :)  But all in all, it was a good day.  We rounded off everything with a trip to JT's Manukan Grille for lunch :)


Book Review: This is your Brain IN LOVE

March 16, 2010


Who wouldn’t want to know how their brain behaves when they’re in love?  I, for one, was caught by the title of this book (that comes complimentary from BookSneeze) and was instantly interested to find out what Dr. Henslin (the author) had to say about it.

Basically, this book is about “improving a troubled marriage, fueling the fires of passion and keeping a life-long love alive”.  The difference is that  Dr. Henslin uses brain imaging scans to bring therapy to a whole different level.  He discusses the five types of Lovers in detail:  the Scattered Lover, the Overfocused Lover, the Blue Mood Lover, the Agitated Lover and the Anxious Lover to provide insights you and your partner can evaluate on your own or as a couple and recommends solutions to facing such challenges. 

I really liked this book because it talks about the totality of marriage like a work in progress.  There’s the element of sex and intimacy between the couple (I found that list on Jewish tradition to be really fascinating that I had to share it with partner) and how it relates to the spirituality of their marriage.  Then, there’s the whole section on the Five Types of Lovers.  There are tables, checklists and brain scan images that are really fun to explore.  If you find that you’re not of that type, then you can skip it and focus on yours.  It’s very readable even though there may be scientific and medical terms to understand.  The anecdotes about the couples he had in therapy put a realistic stamp on his practice.  I also really loved the fact that he doesn’t rely on giving you pills immediately but offers a refinement of your diet and nutrition as part of the solution. 

This is a book that you can refer to again and again.  It is very useful for couples and even as individuals if you’re feeling lost in your marriage.  I found it fascinating, interesting and hard to put down.  Thumbs Up!

Trip to Quezon Memorial Circle

March 13, 2011

Do you have the same feeling when the weekend arrives and your feet are itching to go somewhere?  That happens to me a lot. :) Being cooped up in the house for 5 days in a row can make you go ga-ga so during the weekends, I wish to go out.  It doesn't really matter where I go, just need to get out of the house.

Well, we know that on Saturday we had Dylan's photo shoot so that basically covered that day.  On Sunday, I thought that we should bring the kids to the park and have them ride bikes.  When we went to the Quezon Memorial Circle before, there were just too many people that it wouldn't be fun for the kids to ride their bikes because you simply had no road to run on.  Well, fortunately, when we arrived, there were less people and we finally had a chance to ride.  It was also a good day because Den was able to come with us after such a long time of missing out on our travels :)

So there we were, Den on BMX bike (rental P80/hr), Dana with her solo bike (rental P80/hr) and our trike (rental P100/hr).  At first, we got a small trike for Dana to drive while Dylan rode with her.  But, I think the weight of the bike was too much for her to handle and she was getting frustrated driving it so we decided to get her her own bike.  Patrick and I took turns driving Dylan around but my butt ended up getting too sore so Patrick had to bear most of the driving.  The seat cushion was too small and hard and the handlebars kept bumping my knees.  The bike that we got was too small for us! LOL It was all worth it though because Dylan really loved the wind in his hair and being driven around.  When Patrick stopped by our table, Dylan will always tell him, "Daddy, you're not yet done.  You have to ride some more!" LOL

When our hour was up, we returned the bikes and went in search of some snacks to eat.  There was a number of stalls there and we settled with eating california maki, tokwa't baboy and kwek-kwek (battered quail eggs).  Weird combination, huh? :)

After resting a bit, we headed to Patrick's neighborhood barber to get a haircut.  Then, we went to Shopwise in Cubao for some grocery shopping.  Funny enough, the kids weren't tired at all and they had so much energy! :)

Here are our pictures:







Dylan's Photo Shoot

March 12, 2010

Today is a milestone in Dylan's life :)  This is the first time he'll be participating in a professional photo shoot for Smart Parenting magazine (online version).  How did this happen, you ask?  Well, during the week, Patrick was, of course, working at the office when Steph from Smart Parenting came over to the Top Gear digital cubicle and was asking co-workers if they had kids, specifically boys ranging between 4-6 years old.  Patrick told me he had to compute for Dylan's age considering he was having his 5th birthday this coming 18th :)  When he said he had a boy fitting the description, they both looked at pictures of Dylan on Facebook and Steph liked what she saw and she told Patrick that details for the photo shoot will be emailed as soon as they were finalized.  Then, we found out that the photo shoot will be for Saturday and we got so excited! :)

So now, it's Saturday and we all woke up early so we won't be late :) First impressions last and all that :)  It's good that we know where the photo shoot will be held (Somerset Millenium Makati) so we know we won't get lost on the way.  When we got there, we had a little time for Dylan to get accustomed to the place.  He usually isn't fussy when encountering some place new but it's good that he immediately became comfortable so easily.  He was actually the first person/model to be photographed because he didn't have to put make up on LOL

It was fun watching Dylan hamming it up in front of the camera.  To him, it was just like playtime :)  We do a lot of the same stuff at home - making funny faces, pretending to take pictures and generally just really goofing about :)  It worked well during the photo shoot because all his shots look really natural and he was able to take direction really well.  He also didn't complain at all which was a huge plus factor! :)  He was just a little confused why he has to change clothes a number of times but other than that things proceeded as scheduled :))

The whole photo shoot took about 4 hours because of setting up, changing clothes, taking a break for lunch and getting the kids ready.  It was a relief that Dylan didn't get tired! LOL

Here's a preview of some of Dylan's pictures courtesy of Smart Parenting.  The article came out on March 14th and here's a link to it.











Happy 7th Birthday, Dana! :)

Happy Birthday to our beautiful daughter, Dana Catherine! :)

You can't imagine how fast time flies.  Here's one way to think about Dana's 7th birthday:  It's been seven years since she came out of the hotel, yes, the one I call, The Womb! LOL  It's truly incredible how such a small person can blossom into this lovely little girl that's obviously a product of Patrick and me :)  I may look like her, but her mood swings are definitely Patrick's LOL

I've often heard that the 7th birthday is a real milestone in a child's life.  I haven't really guessed why.  For me, every day that your child is alive is a milestone and should be celebrated not with parties (they help) but with love and affection.  And though Patrick and I really wanted to celebrate Dana's birthday with a huge bash, unfortunately, this year, we are kind of painfully stripped off a budget for it.  It's tough, when you think about it.  I feel guilty not being able to give her THE Party which her classmates in school obviously had.   I'm just glad that she accepts the reality and am proud of her for understanding it.

Though she didn't have a grand celebration, I did surprise her with a gift when she woke up that morning.  I asked her Ate Den to have a huge tarpaulin made of her favorite character, Willy Wonka, played by Johnny Depp.  See, Dana really likes Willy Wonka/Johnny Depp.  She brings the DVD everywhere she goes.  When she's watching TV, the DVD is right beside her watching with her ;) So, she was really surprised and her eyes glowed with delight when I presented that rolled-up tarpaulin for her :)  Her smile was priceless!!

After her school, we surprised her with a trip to SM Centerpoint for lunch :)  We all ate at Savory (Patrick was still at the office) and her Ate Den presented her with their gift - a Spongebob wallet :)  We also bought her a cake and bought ingredients for carbonara (her favorite) for dinner :)
Hot and Sour Soup

Kikiam